Eat it Right

I have put together some information for you about cunnilingus. :)

Every woman is different and enjoys different kinds of stimulation. There really are no set “rules”, but there are often things that usually feel good for most women. A man who is not offended by some guidance, and can take direction well, will be a happy man.

There are just some basic guidelines I thought were decent. Remember, not everything works for everyone, and be open to suggestion. :)

From Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques –

“Less” is always the best way to start out if you don’t know exactly what a specific person likes. It’s much safer to build up from “not enough” than to try to back down after shattering the mood by being too rough. The final argument to ensure that you always apply this rule is this — If you start out “too” gentle/slowly, in most cases this just excites your lover more, even in the rare cases that it frustrates her a little. But if you start out “too” rough for her, it almost always turns her off to the whole thing.

The differences between women cannot be emphasized enough — no matter what you have encountered so far, always assume that you have no idea what a new partner enjoys. It is entirely possible to have had many lovers, and think They are all pretty much the same or You’ve learned all of the variations, and can tell who’s what. But this can be (and usually is) just a matter of random chance…you happened to get several similar lovers. Eventually you will run into someone, or many people, who are completely different than those you’ve known before.

Don’t start by going down on her. Work your way up to it. Exceptions may be if you’re in a hurry before your Press Secretary shows up, or other situations where you’re expected to act more directly. It’s worth observing that “work your way up to it” remains true no matter how many times you’ve been with that lover. With a long-term lover it may seem like you can get right to the direct stuff, but working your way up still has the same effect of increasing her excitement, with most women.

Along the same line of reasoning, don’t start licking her clitoris immediately, when you do get there. Start with the area around it, which can be pretty sensitive with some women, even if it doesn’t seem to cause the same dramatic response.

Even more important is to not immediately start inserting fingers in her vagina. With most women, that really needs to be built up, first. It usually doesn’t hurt to build up a little, even if she’s already excited.

Remember this — Most often, the tongue works best with the clitoris, the fingers with the vagina/g-spot. Someone else’s fingers on her clitoris tends to be a little rough, no matter how careful they are…and almost all of the excitement she gets from attempting to lick into her vagina is psychological; she can’t really feel much that way. “

From dodsonandross Cunnilingus Tutorial:

“Whenever you touch a woman’s pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn’t have any juices of it’s own and it’s extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it’s dry and that hurts. But you don’t want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.

Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it.

Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you’ve done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she’s straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit.

Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you’re about to eat must be done gently.”

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