This is a really great cunnilingus tutorial video! It is a very thorough general guide of how to eat pussy well. It gives a helpful, medically correct overview of the relevant anatomy, an excellent step-by-step guide with some really great tips, and also some good cautions of commonly made mistakes.
A few of my favourite key points:
- Every woman is unique and likes to be pleasured in different ways.
- Communicate with your partner to see what she likes in that moment.
- Be open to guidance.
- Pay attention to her verbal and physical cues from start to finish, and what she is responding to. These are very helpful signs to tell you which movements and motions she likes best.
- Pussy licking should never be rushed… go slow at first! Kiss her thighs, tease the entire vulva region and avoid the clit until she is very aroused and ready. The clit is so sensitive and it can be uncomfortable or even painful to be touched directly before she’s ready. Explore the entire delicious and beautiful area! Get her warmed up. The whole vulva has nerve endings and feels good when kissed and licked, not just the clit.
- Switch it up in the beginning – Use different speeds, pressures, angles. Kiss, lick, flick, suck. From soft kisses, to long slow tongue strokes, to quick tongue flicks.
- Fingers shouldn’t go anywhere near a sensitive pussy until well into the action, and she is very well lubricated. (Even then, many women don’t enjoy or want fingers, so ask first.)
- Once she’s revved up and ready, pick that one technique she is responding to and concentrate on it. At this point you want to strive for consistency and focus. It’s easy for orgasm to be within her grasp and then lose it, if you change what you’re doing or speed up/slow down at the wrong moment.
- After she cums, the clit is incredibly sensitive, so leave it alone! Kiss the rest of the vulva for a bit, and when/if she’s ready for more, she will let you know. ;)
And also remember, if you really want to be an excellent lover, warm her up before even going for her pussy. Kiss her neck and ears, touch her gently all over, kiss her breasts, suck her nipples. We have erogenous zones all over our body to be enjoyed and explored, before going straight to the pussy. So take your time and savour the moment! :)